March 21, 2025

If Hailey Bieber Really Stalked Justin… and Won, Then What?

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When obsession wears luxury, moves in silence, and ends up married.

In a post-Baby Reindeer world, we’re all looking at obsession a little differently. The viral Netflix series reminded us that stalking doesn’t always come with a ski mask and breathing into your voicemail—it can look like friendliness, loyalty, even love. And that’s why people are side-eyeing the Hailey Bieber timeline like it’s the prequel to Baby Reindeer (Hailey’s Version)

Because if the viral theories are true, then…

what happens when the alleged stalker gets the ring?

The Alleged Timeline TikTok Can’t Let Go Of

Tracking Justin Bieber’s location, allegedly via a New York blogger, and appearing at his hotel and go-to restaurants.
A resurfaced clip of Stephen Baldwin physically nudging Hailey Bieber toward Justin, while he was still dating Selena.
Tattoo matches, wardrobe mimicry, interviews with nearly identical quotes—all echoing Selena Gomez’s public persona.
And the real jaw-dropper: the New Year’s Eve Abu Dhabi trip, where Kendall Jenner allegedly invited Selena Gomez out of the country—conveniently giving Hailey a clear path to Justin that week.

This wasn’t fate. This felt like strategy.

When Obsession Ends in Marriage

Let’s say for a second—just hypothetically—that all of this really happened. And now Hailey is Mrs. Bieber, with a skincare brand, Vogue covers, and a wedding dress moment the internet can’t stop referencing. So the question becomes:

If someone stalks you into a relationship… but it’s pretty and public, is it still a problem?

If she “won” in the end, does it cancel out how she got there?

Because Baby Reindeer showed us that just because someone isn’t physically threatening you doesn’t mean they’re not pushing into your life in dangerous ways. And now the internet is wondering: Was this emotional stalking with a PR strategy?

Stalking, But Make It Glam

Let’s be real—if this were a regular person showing up uninvited, mirroring your identity, and inserting themselves into your relationship…

We’d be calling the cops, not writing thinkpieces. But because it’s a celebrity, a Baldwin, and now a Bieber—it gets rebranded: From creepy to “manifesting.” From obsession to “devotion.” And we, as a culture, eat it up.

When Manifesting Becomes Manipulation

We’re all for “putting it out into the universe.”

But what happens when that manifestation looks more like monitoring someone’s every move and slowly becoming their ideal partner—by force, not fate?

Copy their vibe.
Hang out with their circle.
Get close to their guy.
Rebrand the whole thing as destiny.

That’s not spiritual. That’s psychological warfare in highlighter and heels

What Are We Even Teaching People?

If this is the narrative we’re endorsing, “she got what she wanted, so let’s move on”, then what does that say about boundaries in the age of Instagram? If you can stalk with subtlety, with a soft voice, with privilege and power… and come out on top, what happens to people on the receiving end who don’t have the same platform to be heard?

That’s what Baby Reindeer screamed at us:

Obsession doesn’t need to be violent to be violating.

And it’s even more dangerous when no one wants to believe you.

So, Where’s the Line?

•When does admiration become a red flag?

•When does “inspired by” turn into identity theft?

•And how far is too far when fame, followers, and a husband are the reward?

This isn’t about Selena vs. Hailey.

This is about how we’ve normalized obsession when it ends in marriage, not court.

Be honest: If this exact behavior came from a male celebrity, would we be so chill about it? Or is society just more forgiving when stalking comes in neutral tones and goes viral on Pinterest?